Here is the deal. I dont want all of my BM's to be matchy matchy, its just not fair to them, one could look great while the other could look hideous. I want to just tell them either of 2 colors and give them all a color swatch to help them shop. My concern is that they wont be able to find dresses to match unless we all go to a bridal shop together. Does anyone have any suggestions or has anyone done this? I dont want them all to spend a ton and be stuck with a dress they wont wear again. We all know we have at least one of those which was a huge waste of $. Thanks!!!