So my fiance and I had some recent bad luck...We just found out that the money we planned on using for our wedding isn't coming to fruition...Our planned wedding budget was about 10k and the amount of money we are out at this point is about 5k....So at this point we are at half our budget. My fiance says "it's okay" we will make it work but I just don't see how. What we will have to do at this point is count every penney we have and save it and honestly I don't want to be under that kind of stress. We have kids, and to make this work everyone is going to have to suffer....I casually brought up maybe postponing the wedding for say summer of 2011 but it was brought up in a way just to test the waters. After all I love being with her. I dont need the wedding to happen tomorrow or even Aug 7th 2010. I want it to be nice but I don't want us to have to cut corners, or have to ask anyone for money. So at this point do I seriously say "look we need to postpone this"???? I don't want to upset her but I can't see how we can crunch the numbers to make it work. It's not like we are out a couple hundred bucks here....She just graduated nursing school...I am still in school....plus kids...We have so much debt from school a loan isn't even a possibility at this point. the money just isn't there for us to make up at this point....it only seems realistic...What do you gals think????