DH and I are doing our thank you notes right now and I just realized we never got a gift or card from my MOH and her husband. I'm not sure how to approach this. If she didn't give one, that's FINE! I mean, she traveled from Delaware several times for wedding prep, did a lot for the shower, etc. That being said, she and one of my bridesmaids went in on a gift for the shower and got me a Le Creuset dutch oven so I have a hard time believing that she didn't get a gift for the wedding. Also, I've known her since I was four, so even if she didn't give a gift, I would be really surprised to not get a card.
I'm not sure exactly what to do. I want to write a thank you note, but I'm not sure what to say. Like I said, I'm totally fine with her not giving a gift, especially with all she did for me, I just would have thought she would have said something to me about that. I don't exactly want to text her and be like, "Hey, you didn't give us a gift for the wedding. Was that on purpose?" LOL