I'm between a rock and a hard place. FI and I have differing opinions. So I'm asking you ladies.... what would you do?
The story is.... I was friends with Mr. M in college. Then I met Miss P when we pledged. They ended up getting married (I helped plan their wedding) and having 2 cute kids. Fast forward 5 years and they're going through a bitter divorce and she's preggo from another dude.
Now, their issues were under wraps for a long time. We knew something was going on but it was never acknowledged from them until recently so I still addressed their invitation to Mr. & Mrs. (who am I to pry?) . Her due date is 6 days after my wedding and she lives 2 hours away so there's a very likely chance that she won't attend (plus, I think she's avoiding everyone due to her situation). The other day, Mr. M called and said he saw the save-the-date but since they're no longer on speaking terms, he wasn't sure if I had sent out the invitations and he'd really like to attend.
So I think I should just split the invitation... send her one and send him one since I thought they'd both attend anyway. FI says no.... just invite her with the 2 seats as planned and she can bring who she wants. I don't think it's fair not to invite Mr. M when it's very likely she won't show (but, if both reply as yes... I'd give full disclosure that the other will be there and let them decide).