one of my bridesmaids just told me shes pregnant... shes due in august (my wedding is october 1st). my mom's initial reaction was that she's "out". is that rude, or unkind, or anything? my friend already has a 3 year old, and its not the best situation. and now another kid on the way?
i've been up and down these past few weeks with my girl friends (in case anyone is following my threads), but this one in particular, siigh. i help her as much as i can with her 3 year old (she doesnt have a car, so i help with pickups/babysitting until she gets home from work). shes been so absorbed in her new relationship, and has kinda disappeared lately. i only see her when im dropping her kid off. is it wrong of me to step away from all of it? ive got a ton on my plate, and im not even talking wedding stuff anymore. but does it make me a bad friend to just not want to be involved? i have no problem helping FRIENDS, but she hasnt even been that for me, for months now (before she even got pregnant) so, i just dont know.
bleh. im really understanding why people elope. kudos to those wise couples... you saved yourself lots of drama, haha.