Obviously if the word "wedding" is mentioned in a sentence, there will automatically be a "F&B minimum" or some other outlandish charge. So my FI and I are tossing around the idea of just making a group reservation at some restaurant, probably only 20-25 people will be there, and just not telling them what the gathering is for. Has anyone ever done this or is it right to do? I'm at the point where I will lie through my teeth in order to not be charged for stupid stuff. How would we even make it work, especially if we want to have a wedding cake?