So my reception venue requires a lot of DIY work that naturally my FI and I won't be able to coordinate ourselves on the big day. So when a friend asked if I needed any help I offered to pay her to help coordinate the wedding (payment seemed neccesary since it would take up more time than making a few favors or something). Should I also get her a thank you gift?
Our budget is mostly accounted for at this point (and only working since my mom has offered to pay for a few things) or else I'd just get her something regardless, but I want to make sure that I'm not being rude if I don't end up getting her something.