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Well Hello -

I am currently planning a non-existant wedding. I'm just over waiting for that stupid question! SO and I have been together for almost four years have a 1 year old daughter and I'm done waiting. So that's that. I'm just going for it. He says I can plan anything I want but there's no date. Soo what's the point in waiting? I'm just going for it. That's that.

Hello, yes I read that a lot of people don't encourage this type of behavior, but he told me to. So I am...there's just no ring.
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  • It's kind of hard to plan without a date.

  • So.... you want to start planning a wedding that your SO doesn't even seem to want yet? I think if you're that eager, maybe YOU should propose to HIM. If he says yes, then go right ahead, you're engaged. If he says no....well, there's your answer.
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  • KarlieeAnneKarlieeAnne member
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    [QUOTE]So.... you want to start planning a wedding that your SO doesn't even seem to want yet? I think if you're that eager, <strong>maybe YOU should propose to HIM.</strong> If he says yes, then go right ahead, you're engaged. If he says no....well, there's your answer.
    Posted by Hummingbird125[/QUOTE]

    Been there, done that. He says yes, but also wants to do the "manly" thing and ask me..The date is in the air because of our season preferences. He wants Winter I want Fall..so I am looking at things with cost in mind. Pre-planning in the internet stage when it gets closer to fall we are going to figure out if that's the right season for us either next year or the following. Right now I am helping his sister plan her wedding for this fall seeing as how she is the onl girl in the family I want to give her the respect of not getting married right on top of her. Also SO's brother got married last month.
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    [QUOTE]I am currently planning a non-existant wedding.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]
    I think that Freya says it best:

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  • Well, ok.  Have fun.  I'm not sure what kind of response you expected here, but yeah.  Have fun.
  • Why did you post this if you knew the response you'd get?


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    [QUOTE]I am currently planning a non-existant wedding. I'm just over waiting for that stupid question! SO and I have been together for almost four years have a 1 year old daughter and I'm done waiting. So that's that. I'm just going for it. He says I can plan anything I want but there's no date. Soo what's the point in waiting? I'm just going for it. That's that. Hello, yes I read that a lot of people don't encourage this type of behavior, but he told me to. So I am...there's just no ring.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

     I bet your pinterest board has a ton of great ideas you plan on using.

     

  • Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
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    [QUOTE]Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

    1. There are married people on here because they came in with boyfriends, got engaged then got married. They've hung around because there's a close community here, and it's a close community that doesn't encourage pre-planning.

    2. There will be no tips given to people who aren't engaged and therefore shouldn't be planning a wedding.

    3. Get over to Weddingbee. They'll love you there.

  • tuarceathatuarceatha member
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    edited September 2012
    Karliee... May I call you Karliee?

    We hold wedding planning sacred on this board. There is a time and a place for it, and you have chosen to share that you know that. As a married lady, I want to share my experience with you. I planned a wedding with my then FI, then had a wedding, and now I'm married. That's it. It's done. I can't get it back unless I divorce him and see if he'll propose again.

    Thinking and brainstorming details about that day is fun, but often frustrating because it isn't here. I think you need a specific budget, date, guest list and FI before you can really plan a wedding. Just this married lady's opinion--which I feel you asked for by posting on this board.
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    [QUOTE]Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

    You barged in and said you know what we don't encourage on such a board but said you could give two sh!ts. No wonder people are going to be judgy.

     

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    [QUOTE]I am currently planning a non-existant wedding.<strong> I'm just over waiting for that stupid question! </strong>SO and I have been together for almost four years have a 1 year old daughter and I'm done waiting. So that's that. I'm just going for it. He says I can plan anything I want but there's no date. Soo what's the point in waiting? I'm just going for it. That's that. Hello, yes I read that a lot of people don't encourage this type of behavior, but he told me to. So I am...there's just no ring.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

    Are you stating that him asking you to marry him is stupid? If so do you think that's really a "stupid question"? Because in that sense I would have to disagree. Someone asking you to marry them and wanting to spend the rest of their life with you is a big deal. If my BF said to go ahead and plan a wedding with no date, and he hadn't proposed I would tell him no, I want to wait until we are engaged. Doesn't that seem the most logical?
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    [QUOTE]Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
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  • Eeveryone says you need to lurk and GTK the feel of the board before posting, which wasn't something I was aware of (until after, not that it shows but I edited my orig post after I read the opening of the "READ THIS FIRST" post) , I just jumped in with high hopes. I have learned my lesson now that's for sure. (and to take EVERYTHING with a grain of salt and move on) I am really trying to just find some common ground with people on here because I have NO ONE. I am naive I know, and I am seeing help for it. Sorry if I made anyone here cautious, feel negative, or suspicious of me. I just need help from people who are going through the same things I am, because like I said I have no one here at home base. I am trying to make strides to be a better poster and with THINK it through before I try to post anything. I do like the honesty here and hope that no one alters it toward me (yeah right! Wink) Sad parade over. Crying

    P.S. I talked smack on a different board (which I know you can see) and this as copied from that; but I'm being honest and just moving on. Say what you will it won't bother me. I probably won't be back posting for a while, but I will lurk and try to feel this whole place out more. Happy Tuesday Morning.
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    [QUOTE]Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
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    edited September 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_well-hello?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bea57521-8467-4c5f-8d2b-0090ea2375d2Post:c1470573-5a65-4c73-94e7-fdd7b49cefc7">Re: Well Hello -</a>:
    [QUOTE]Everyone is SO quick to judge and make fun aren't they. Oh how funny it is the new girl who fumbles when she talks and dreams about getting married. Please, save it. Why are there even people on this board who are married? So you can pick on people?? How about some encouraging words or helpful tips you found when you were planning? I came here in hopes that there would be others in similar situations but I can tell that you ran them off. I'm not leaving and you know what I LOVE PINTEREST and the ideas that are on there.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

    <div>Karliee - Your first line was '<span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">I am currently planning a non-existant (sic) wedding.' I'm not exactly sure what reaction you wanted to that. If one of my close friends said that to me, I'd tell her I think she needs to slow down and enjoy where she is. I can only hope that there are not other people in similar situations, because it's just not a healthy place to be.</span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">
    </span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">It's normal to look forward to your engagement/wedding day, but with what you're saying, it sounds like you're ready to get engaged and your boyfriend isn't. It sounds like he's just telling you to do some planning to get you off his back. Sit down with him and discuss it like adults.</span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">
    </span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">And regardless of how fun it is to fill Pinterest boards with pretty pictures, the reality of planning a wedding is that there are TWO people involved, not just what you want. </span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">
    </span></div><div><span style="background-color:#ffffff;font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;">Also, since you asked - I'm married, but I'm still here, because when I first came on NEY, I had a BF and was itching to get married, they basically said the same things I said to you above, and instead of wasting 7 months of my time with my BF being upset or jumping the gun, I enjoyed where we were at the time. And now, these women have become my friends. So I come back to help dispense the wisdom I learned from them to other women.</span></div>
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    [QUOTE]Screen Name: KarlieeAnne
    Age: Physical 21; Mental I would say 25.
    Significant Other's Age: 27
    Posted by BriSox81[/QUOTE]

    Whoa wait... so you were 17 when you started dating? And he was 23? I, um... hm.

  • Lurking on OP's posts on TB. There's some entertaining stuff in there. Can't tell if she's clueless or just a butthole.

    Yes, I said butthole.
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    [QUOTE]Eeveryone says you need to lurk and GTK the feel of the board before posting, which wasn't something I was aware of (until after, not that it shows but I edited my orig post after I read the opening of the "READ THIS FIRST" post) , I just jumped in with high hopes. I have learned my lesson now that's for sure. (and to take EVERYTHING with a grain of salt and move on) I am really trying to just find some common ground with people on here because I have NO ONE. I am naive I know, and I am seeing help for it. Sorry if I made anyone here cautious, feel negative, or suspicious of me. I just need help from people who are going through the same things I am, because like I said I have no one here at home base. I am trying to make strides to be a better poster and with THINK it through before I try to post anything. I do like the honesty here and hope that no one alters it toward me (yeah right! ) Sad parade over. P.S. I talked smack on a different board (which I know you can see) and this as copied from that; but I'm being honest and just moving on. Say what you will it won't bother me. I probably won't be back posting for a while, but I will lurk and try to feel this whole place out more. Happy Tuesday Morning.
    Posted by KarlieeAnne[/QUOTE]

    I'm just really confused as to what you were expecting to get out of this.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well Hello - : I'm just really confused as to what you were expecting to get out of this.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    Probably something like this...

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  • This is all sorts of crazy.  

    OP - If you really have lurked and read the board intro, did you really think you would find a lot of people here who are not engaged and planning a wedding?  If he hasn't proposed, he isn't ready to be engaged/get married.  Planning a wedding isn't going to speed that along.  

    If one of my friends told me they were "pre-engaged" I'd laugh.  We aren't internet strangers being mean, I'd tell my nearest and dearest they were nuts if they said exactly what you posted.
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    What a peach.... This is a post she put on TB.

    Although our age difference (7 years) delayed our love, it defiantly didn't stop it. my love and I "officially" met in Summer 2008; and have been sharing our lives together ever since. While I was working in a local pub, he was a frequent visitor, stopping in on his way through (on his motorcycle hubba hubba ) town. we had an instant physical connection, and later an emotional one. After spending the summer "running into" each other, we decided to play the dating game in December of that same year. With ups and downs (but mostly ups) we found out we were expecting in January 2011 (the 2nd to be exact) What a present for the New Year! My pregnancy was a breeze, aside from the rising temperature, I was healthy and so was our little nugget. At our first ultrasound we were unable to detect the sex of our peanut, however, the US tech also had trouble getting a clear image of all four chambers of the heart. At our second US not only did we see that the baby had a healthy heartbeat, but was A GIRL! (Not our first choice then, but our only now) Elated our family members knew and a shower was planned (by myself, I'm a control FREAK!) Our family and friends celebrated and literally showered us with everything we would need for a precious baby girl. On August 26th, 2011 our lives changed forever, and we are living in the moment every moment of everyday. Visit my BLOG for updates on our beautiful Emery Roe.

    Here's my version of CN for this one: I was 17 and met my then-23 yo BF in 2008. After sleeping with each other whenever we saw each other, we were officially dating in Dec 08. We found out we were pregnant. We REALLY wanted a boy, but we found out it was a girl. I planned my own baby shower. 

    Also, I read your whole thread about how mean we are. And the thread where you get snappy with a group of women who want children but are unable to have them. If this is what you call being 'naive' then yes, you DEFINITELY need help with that.
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    [QUOTE]What a peach.... This is a post she put on TB. Although our age difference (7 years) delayed our love, it defiantly didn't stop it. my love and I "officially" met in Summer 2008; and have been sharing our lives together ever since. While I was working in a local pub, he was a frequent visitor, stopping in on his way through (on his motorcycle hubba hubba ) town. we had an instant physical connection, and later an emotional one. After spending the summer "running into" each other, we decided to play the dating game in December of that same year. With ups and downs (but mostly ups) we found out we were expecting in January 2011 (the 2nd to be exact) What a present for the New Year! My pregnancy was a breeze, aside from the rising temperature, I was healthy and so was our little nugget. At our first ultrasound we were unable to detect the sex of our peanut, however, the US tech also had trouble getting a clear image of all four chambers of the heart. At our second US not only did we see that the baby had a healthy heartbeat, but was A GIRL! (Not our first choice then, but our only now) Elated our family members knew and a shower was planned (by myself, I'm a control FREAK!) Our family and friends celebrated and literally showered us with everything we would need for a precious baby girl. On August 26th, 2011 our lives changed forever, and we are living in the moment every moment of everyday. Visit my BLOG for updates on our beautiful Emery Roe. Here's my version of CN for this one: I was 17 and met my then-23 yo BF in 2008. After sleeping with each other whenever we saw each other, we were officially dating in Dec 08. We found out we were pregnant. We REALLY wanted a boy, but we found out it was a girl. I planned my own baby shower.  <strong>Also, I read your whole thread about how mean we are.</strong> And the thread where you get snappy with a group of women who want children but are unable to have them. If this is what you call being 'naive' then yes, you DEFINITELY need help with that.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well Hello - : On TB?
    Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yep! <a href="http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/68483762.aspx" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">CLICKY </a>It was originally titled 'And I thought you were bad.'</div><div>
    </div><div>Don't get into her other posts unless you have a lot of time. She basically walks into every internet forum, takes a shiiiiiiiiit, then claims naivety. She also consistently uses the word 'defiantly' instead of 'definitely.'</div>
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    edited September 2012
    " Haha! Thank you for pointing that out to me too. I guess I really wasn't using the right term(s). I appreciate everyone's honesty. Just need to learn to take it with a grain of salt. I have also posted back to them and felt good during, but feel bad after because I think I just made myself look defensive and weak. I might just delete the whole post and wait to go back. (I'm waiting no matter what) I might just find a different board to watch...  "
    (from TB)
    OP, you were quoted, so deleting isn't going to make much of a difference.
    And yes, we do read cross boards. 
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_well-hello?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bea57521-8467-4c5f-8d2b-0090ea2375d2Post:118acd38-d730-4ffd-80ea-2cb2bd7614ba">Re: Well Hello -</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well Hello - : Yep!  CLICKY  It was originally titled 'And I thought you were bad.' Don't get into her other posts unless you have a lot of time. <strong>She basically walks into every internet forum, takes a shiiiiiiiiit, then claims naivety. </strong>She also consistently uses the word 'defiantly' instead of 'definitely.'
    Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

    <div>I giggled. A lot. </div><div>
    </div><div>Every time, I picture Sous's "Taking a Shiiiiiiiiiiit in Starbucks" story. </div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_well-hello?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bea57521-8467-4c5f-8d2b-0090ea2375d2Post:d268b9f4-820f-423e-8fa7-d95c163e6556">Re: Well Hello -</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Well Hello - : I giggled. A lot.  Every time, I picture Sous's "Taking a Shiiiiiiiiiiit in Starbucks" story. 
    Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

    <div>That is EXACTLY what I had in mind when I was writing it! i2i :)</div>
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