After months and months of nagging FI to do the one thing he had to do for the wedding--ask his groomsmen--he finally did it. Well, sort of. His best man actually called ME to see if he was the best man (not in a rude way; he knew it was supposed to be him!). FI never actually asked my brother... He thought it should be implied. He finally asked the third a few weeks ago. One of the guys, he decided not to ask, as the two had grown apart.
The last was supposed to be his step-brother. He had plenty of opportunities to ask him, and I know he wants him to be in the wedding! About a month ago, said step-brother (we'll call him FBIL) got engaged! They set their date for June 8, one month before our wedding. Now, FI doesn't want to ask FBIL to be a GM because he's afraid then FBIL will feel obligated to ask FI as well! I told him he is being ridiculous!!