I just wanted to get other people's opinion on something, especially those going through the wedding process.
My Fiance and I signed up to do a 5K about two months ago. We paid and cannot get a refund. We just found out this week, that our friends, who are also getting married, are having their Wedding Shower on the same day. My Fiance is also a Groomsman in their Wedding.
We are not sure what to do. We already had this planned and paid for, but as an engaged couple ourselves we understand if they want him there, since he is a Groomsman.
As future Brides and your Fiancés, would you accept this as an excuse for one of your Groomsman not to be at your Shower. or would you expect him there?
(Note: Doing both is not an option. Scheduling won't allow it.)