I know traditionally the girls pay for their own dresses, which is exactly what I assumed would happen - and their shoes (I'm planning to keep it under $300 for both, less if I can manage it). I"ve never been in a wedding but this is the way it's been for most of my friends weddings as well. The issue that I'm having is that one of my friends has said that since the girls will travel for the wedding I should have to pay for everything. I know that all my other friends who've been married have also had most of their girls travel and the girls paid for their own dreses - my FH has always paid for his own tux even when travelling. What should I do? Should I pay for the dresses or should they still get those too (assuming I can keep it reasonable...)