I got my invites in the mail and I hate them. They have a black backing which rubbed off- now all the invites have black smudges on them. My wedding is June 8th but the venue needs a guest count 30 days prior, so I really need to get the invites out ASAP. What do I do?? I don't know if I should just send them (even though I despise them) or order new ones. Help!