I posted a couple of weeks ago about potentially wanting to plan a 30th birthday party this fall for my fiance. His birthday will fall a weekend after the wedding, while we are on our honeymoon and I was basically looking for some insight into whether or not planning a party for 60+ people the weekend after we get back was doable.
Well after putting some thought into it and making a list of all the stuff I still have to do for the wedding, I realized I will just be taking on WAY to much. We have a lot of family birthdays and his cousins wedding about a month before ours as well. I talked to his mom and we are going to scale it back and just do a birthday dinner at his favorite restaurant with our closest family and friends the Saturday after we get back from our honeymoon.
So my question is... what is the ettiquette on the birthday dinner. Since we will be having it at a restaurant am I still technically hosting a party and expected to pay for it? I most certainly will if thats the proper ettiquette on it but I want to make sure. Thanks!