I recently got engaged to my arabic boyfriend of 5 years. I am american and we are having issues with planning our wedding because of differences in our families. his family wants to be able to dance at the wedding but cant because im going to have it guys and girls mixed. everyone in my family drinks and I know my fiance's mom would freak out if there was any alcohol at the wedding. we are also having an issue with location being that our families live hrs from eachother. if anyone has some suggestions for me I would love to hear them!