I got engaged nearly a year and a half ago and my best friend who I chose as MOH was excited and willing to give advice and idea's and help with plans until a few months later and she seemed less and less involved fast forward to now and I'm getting married in a little less then 3 months and am having some serious issues with my MOH, she now wants me to buy her dress and shoes for the wedding because she was laid off, which i told her long ago I couldn't do because I'm on a very tight budget for my wedding and can't afford to cover the cost of her dress, my dress, and my fiance's suite. We've been having a lot of issues in our friendship too and fighting a lot off and on for the last several months though right now we are on fair terms though the other night while talking to her I made a comment about being excited that I would be starting to send my wedding invitations out in the next week to which she responding by saying "I love you, but I don't want to hear anymore about your wedding."I was hurt and angry about this comment, she has made similar comments in recent weeks, which has seriously made me consider asking her to step out of my bridal party and possible not to even attend my wedding. My question to all you ladies is do I have a right to ask her to step down from my wedding party, because of her nasty behavior, which has been causing me untold amounts of stress and depression? Also is there even a diplomatic way to do this? I've tried several times to talk to her about her attitude which she corrects for a couple of weeks then just goes right back to it.