My BM is causing unnecessary stress. My MOH planned my bachelorette party - a weekend away in a nearby city - for the second weekend in May. My BM offered for us to use her parents' timeshare for the weekend so the expense was going to be minimal for those attending. About 2 months ago, all BMs agreed that they could make it. Now my BM is saying she can't make it because of Mother's Day activities. Fine.
The problem is now that she won't attend, her parents don't feel comfortable giving us the timeshare. And the other 2 BMs are saying they can't afford to rent a hotel!! So now it's just going to be me and MOH renting a hotel for the weekend?
Should we cancel it altogether? No other weekends will work, and my wedding is in June. I feel like I should approach flaky bridesmaid about covering the hotel cost. She screwed up, and she was totally wrong to promise something she couldn't deliver. I am livid and hoping she fears my wrath enough to just back out of BM duties altogether.
ETA: I don't want to alter my original post because I'm not sure if that's rude, but please know that the last part of my post was spoken in anger after just finding out this news. I will never say anything negative to my BM for this situation which is out of her control.