I don't want to make it too lengthy, but here's the rundown:
I asked my BFF (we've known each other for over 20 years)to be my MOH in Novemeber 2011 when I got engaged. She started acting really funny after a few months (i.e. refusing to go dress shopping and not replying on BM e-mails), but I had always believed she was here to support me although she dislikes my FI. At the end of January, we had a "falling out" after she had confessed to not really wanting to be involved because she couldn't support me marrying my FI. I was extremely hurt after being strung along for over a year and was in tears....
Since then, I've replaced her in the wedding party. After not talking for 2 months, we've had a couple of phone conversations, but there hasn't been any resolution/discussion about the disagreement. I get married on August 10th, and will be sending out invitations within the next week. I know it's a little early (based on etiquette), but FI has a lot of family out of state and we want to give more than enough notice. Should I invite my replaced MOH to my wedding? Her sister's boyfriend has become friends with my FI, so if we invite him, we'll technically be inviting her sister too. Should we invite her sister and her boyfriend to the wedding? Any other suggestions? Thanks for your help!