So, about 3 weeks ago, FH came to me and said that his Mom doesn't want him to move out until just before the wedding in August. He is 43 and rents a suite in his Mom's rather large house. He also helps her with a lot of things, and she relies on him for far too much in my opinion. She's 72, widowed for many years, has a pension from both her career and her deceased husband's career, no mortgage, no other payments except utilities on a really old house, so I imagine they're quite high. FH pays rent and some bills.
Fast forward...he said that he would prefer moving in with me sooner rather than later, and suggested the end of April. I mentioned this to him last night, and he doesn't remember saying that. He wants to keep both myself and his Mom happy, and maybe move in June or July. He would still pay his Mom a bit of rent as he would be storing some stuff there, and moving over gradually.
Am I wrong to let this bug me? He's a 43 year old man who really needs to cut some apron strings, and it worries me about the amount of control she has over him. I know she doesn't want things to change, and is really nervous about that, but he lived MILES away from home for 15 years. She couldn't rely on him then.
Sorry for the rant! :S