I'm not sure if this is going to sound like a dumb question, but my wedding is going start at 5:30pm and my wedding planner suggested that we put 5:00 on the invitation because of CP time. She was saying that if we were white people getting married then it's fine to put 5:00 since they're usually the ones who are on time. But for us black folks (and you know this is true!) we can't ever be on time to save our lives. So do you all think that I should take her advice and put 5:00 or put the actual time of 5:30? For you married ladies, did you notice any people who showed up late? I'm afraid that if I put 5:00 on the invitation, the people who are on time are going to be sitting there wondering when we're going to start and I don't want them to get upset.