Our best man has been best friends since jr high so it was no doubt we wanted him to be our best man, and his wife who has become one of my best friends as our MOH. My mom bought my MOH and BM their dresses so all she had to do was buy her shoes. My fiance told his friend that he would help with the purchase of his suit (even though he has a great job and the suit isnt going to cost that much, hes just being a cheapass). Today out of the blue our best man called my fiance to see if he had the money so he could get the suit and got angry when my fiance, who went 2 1/2 months without work the last few months said he didnt have the money right now but would give him the half when he did. Long story short, the best man thought my fiance was being an a-hole and couldnt understand how we expected him to pony up for the suit, even thought I bought the shirts and we are buying their shoes. My MOH has basically passed off all her duties to other people and I'm so over them.
Is it bad if we tell them we no longer want them in the wedding? We each have another friend who will be up there with us, but I'm over all the drama. Thoughts???