I'm in a friends wedding coming up, and the bride just told us all to choose any black cocktail dress we wanted. My roommate is also in the wedding, and she just came back with a freakin' tea length navy blue dress. Not like, "maybe it's navy, maybe it's black" navy, but like "OMG NAVY" navy. It clashes horribly. I pointed it out against my dress, and she flat out said she doesn't care, she already took the tags off, and the bride can get a different dress if that's what needs to happen. She really doesn't get how sh!tty this is to our friend. I'm trying to get her to change her mind on this before the bride even has to find out. She is under a crazy amount of stress right now, both wedding related and not, and she doesn't need this. I'm hoping I can get enough people to back me up on what a crappy thing this is to do to a friend so I can show this to her and she'll hopefully change her mind.