I am having two flower girls my daughter and my fiancés sisters daughter bu.t my fiancés sister is trying to play the I don't have money for flower girls dress and her own dress that since I want her daughter in wedding I should pay for it? so should I pay for it or should I wait for her to get her dress before I decide on her daughters dress? (did I mention she always has money for her smoke and her cigs ) so I think she can go without smoke for a few months for her daughters dress