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Wedding Nightmares...tell me yours!

So, as my wedding is getting closer, my 'minor' worries are creeping into grandios catastrophies in my dreams!

The other night I dreamt that I missed the ceremony (nobody seemed to notice and everyone pretended we were married!), hardly anyone who replied showed up to the wedding, my dress wasn't the one i picked out, and the DJ didn't have dance music!

Then, to top it off, we only  had three pictures of me and my hubby...the photographer refused to take any more.

I know this is just stemming from the following:

1:  Only a third of the people we sent invites to have responded...and literally no    family has replied!
2:  My photographer has a tendancy to be MIA, although she always pulls thru
3:  I am stressed about my fitting because, gasp, since the holidays my dress is too small and the wedding is two months away!
4:  And the last wedding I went to had an ok DJ so I'm hoping mine isn't the same...

The funny thing is, I don't feel really truly stressed about any of these issues.  I don't feel high anxiety, and in fact, I'm getting more and more excited to marry the one and only person I can imagine my life with.  I just wish my brain would take it down a notch when I fall asleep! 
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    edited December 2011
    I had one last night.  I dreamt that it was the day of the wedding and I had just gotten to the church and we were running late.  10 minutes before the ceremony is supposed to start I realize I don't have my dress with me.  I am standing around in shorts and a crummy shirt with my hair/makeup done and veil on.  I tell my mom to get my dress, which happens to be a hour ride away and we have to be out of the church 1 hour after ceremony begins. 

    The dream spirals into craziness from there that I can't think of all the details.  I have been having really weird dreams lately, not just wedding related.
    DS Born 12/21/11 #2 EDD 4/7/13
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    edited December 2011
    lol! I love when the nightmare posts come. I have had a bunch but the most recent one is the best. My wedding is july 3 in a park. I had a dream that we got to the park and it was a terrible snow storm. So we decide to move to a different park but it was the playground at my school. When we got there we still had it outside but there was still snow on the ground. I like MRS.BARSTOOL forgot my dress and was wearing a hoodie and jeans and the person who was marrying us was no where to be found!
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_wedding-nightmarestell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:5f335753-1051-4535-867e-03c2b3fdd6dcPost:28f30ce7-b8fb-4350-ba79-ba8936522006">Re: Wedding Nightmares...tell me yours!</a>:
    [QUOTE]lol! I love when the nightmare posts come. I have had a bunch but the most recent one is the best. My wedding is july 3 in a park. I had a dream that we got to the park and it was a terrible snow storm. So we decide to move to a different park but it was the playground at my school. When we got there we still had it outside but there was still snow on the ground. I like <strong>MRS.BARSTOOL</strong>forgot my dress and was wearing a hoodie and jeans and the person who was marrying us was no where to be found!
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    You really do like my name, huh?  Just wait until you start prenatals, if you are planning to take them after you stop BCP.  That is when my dreams have gotten really weird.  FI listens to me and gives me weird looks.  I think he thinks I have gone crazy!
    DS Born 12/21/11 #2 EDD 4/7/13
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    edited December 2011
    Yes I do like your name! Barstool is the best piece of furniture.  Infact going go sit on one in a few hours!
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    edited December 2011
    I'm jealous, I wish I could be going and sitting on one in a few hours but there is stuff that needs to be done for the holidays.  Funny enough the has a story behind it and it has nothing to do with a bar or stool or any other combination.
    DS Born 12/21/11 #2 EDD 4/7/13
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    edited December 2011
    Well what's the story?
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    GwenwhyfareGwenwhyfare member
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    edited December 2011
    I never really got wedding nightmares, but the week of the wedding was literally a nightmare for me. 

    - We didn't buy enough wired ribbon for our favors, and I ended up driving to four Joann's and three Michaels only to have found 5 spools, we needed closer to 10.

    - My water heater exploded and ruined all of my paper products: programs, escort cards our custom printed napkins, personalized parasol (for our 'thank you' photo)...the list goes on and on..I ended up asking my boss if it was okay if I could print up new escort cards and programs and thankfully he let me.

    The last one was the worst. I bought an airline ticket six months prior for my brother to fly home for our wedding. He was supposed to fly in on Thursday for our Saturday wedding and his flight got cancelled/rescheduled three times due to bad weather conditions up in Houghton, MI. He ended up not even getting in until very late at night on Friday. I could deal with everything else, but not having my brother there for my wedding really had me in tears. 
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