Groom/Groomsmen Attire Problem

bluejazz93 · August 2013

My boyfriend and I (we're not engaged yet) have discussed our future wedding openly with one another and, because of the colors, he wanted to wear a sky blue tux. That and because of his quirky nature. x)

Well, I thought about it and I decided that since it was his wedding too, sure, why not. But everywhere I look, I can't seem to find a sky blue tux. Does anyone know where I could possibly find one?

I was also wondering what the groomsmen should wear. Should they wear the same color tuxes as the groom or should they wear a sky blue vest with a white or black tux?

GlassButton · August 2013

1. You should ask in your local board. You'll be able to get better answers.

2. They can wear what ever you and your FI like best. Keep in mind their comfort and what they like.

TheVirginians · August 2013

Your groom can wear whatever he wants. Perhaps he can find a sky blue tux at a costume store. Your groomsmen can wear whatever he asks them to. Personally, I like a navy blue suit for almost everything.

STARMOON44 · August 2013

I believe sky blue tuxes are stored in the '70s

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mlg78 · August 2013

While he can wear whatever he wants...I won't hesitate to say that your groom will look absolutely ridiculous in my opinion...

Sumler2Be · August 2013

What about a light blue blazer and khaki pants?

doeydo · August 2013

A vintage or costume store? Sorry, but all that comes to mind is Dumb & Dumber, so it's probably best not to force all of the groomsmen to wear what he is wearing. Normal suits/tuxes with the light blue incorporated in the vest, tie, and/or boutonniere are a more forgiving option.

bethsmiles · August 2013

I think it's silly that you are worrying about this before you are engaged.

misssunshine17 · August 2013

1) You really shouldn't be thinking of this before your engaged. Or at least don't tell people because they'll think you're crazy.

2) I have a strong feeling you'll regret any sort of blue suit when you look back on your pictures. You can't find one because they're hideous.

TiaTea · August 2013

First, I am not really clear if I am allowed to attach the links, so if it's against the rules , I am sorry.

Here are some links. Not sure if they have actual stores, or it they are just online.

http://www.mytuxedocatalog.com/catalog/rental-tuxedos-and-suits/C961-Light-Blue-Tuxedo/
they seem to be part of this http://www.paulmorrell.com/
but still not sure. You may need to research them

And if the GM are into it, some fun options for people , who don't take themselves too seriously
http://www.brightcoloredtuxedos.com/

JoanE2012 · August 2013

bluejazz93 said:

My boyfriend and I (we're not engaged yet) have discussed our future wedding openly with one another and, because of the colors, he wanted to wear a sky blue tux. That and because of his quirky nature. x)
Well, I thought about it and I decided that since it was his wedding too, sure, why not. But everywhere I look, I can't seem to find a sky blue tux. Does anyone know where I could possibly find one?
I was also wondering what the groomsmen should wear. Should they wear the same color tuxes as the groom or should they wear a sky blue vest with a white or black tux?

There's a reason you can't find a sky blue tux.

Honestly, I'd stick to something classic. You don't want to look back on your photos years from now and think, "what the hell were we thinking?!". Not to mention many guests will probably be chuckling. Stick with a classic black tux and save yourself embarrassment.

bluejazz93 · August 2013

Well, the thing is, I don't find sky blue tuxes to be an utter embarrassment. My boyfriend likes to make people laugh and we thought it would be a neat thing to not stick to classics and be a little unoriginal.

And it's not that I'm worried about this, I was just wanting to get an opinion. I like to look at things and plan ahead, even if I'm not engaged. As for Doeydo, yes, Dumb & Dumber is where his idea came from because he likes being goofy and such. And in my opinion, I find sky blue to be a lot better than camouflage, which I've seen many grooms wear who like to base their wedding off of hunting or whatever.

If his opinion does change later on down the road, so be it. As long as he's happy at the wedding when we do get married, it doesn't matter to me.

Thanks TiaTea for the links. They were very helpful.

JoanE2012 · August 2013

bluejazz93 said:

Well, the thing is, I don't find sky blue tuxes to be an utter embarrassment. My boyfriend likes to make people laugh and we thought it would be a neat thing to not stick to classics and be a little unoriginal.
And it's not that I'm worried about this, I was just wanting to get an opinion. I like to look at things and plan ahead, even if I'm not engaged. As for Doeydo, yes, Dumb & Dumber is where his idea came from because he likes being goofy and such. And in my opinion, I find sky blue to be a lot better than camouflage, which I've seen many grooms wear who like to base their wedding off of hunting or whatever.
If his opinion does change later on down the road, so be it. As long as he's happy at the wedding when we do get married, it doesn't matter to me.
Thanks TiaTea for the links. They were very helpful.

Yeah....he'd definitely have the guests laughing! If he wants to do this to himself, that's fine. But please don't subject the groomsman to this embarrassment. Let them wear classic black. It may not be an embarrassment to you, but it is for most people. Hence why you can't find sky blue tuxes.

heidirs731 · August 2013

I don't see why sky blue would be an embarrassment. If he wants to wear it, he can wear it. I would ask the groomsmen, though. I think a light grey would look great with sky blue if they decide they would rather not do the same.

kp53114 · August 2013

Done right, I think it could be a fun idea! It's good that you guys are able to have open conversations about these things now even though you aren't engaged yet.

As for the groomsmen, I would say same color tux, but with a different color vest/tie or some variation like that. It also wouldn't be a bad idea to hammer out these details before asking them to be in your party, so they know up front what you are expecting them to wear. You only want those who are supportive to be in your wedding party.

JoanE2012 · August 2013

KeraE86 said:

Done right, I think it could be a fun idea! It's good that you guys are able to have open conversations about these things now even though you aren't engaged yet.

As for the groomsmen, I would say same color tux, but with a different color vest/tie or some variation like that. It also wouldn't be a bad idea to hammer out these details before asking them to be in your party, so they know up front what you are expecting them to wear. You only want those who are supportive to be in your wedding party.

I think it's awful that you'd only have someone in the wedding party if they like your idea. If they don't like the colors.....NEXT! How about choosing your wedding party, floating the idea and adjusting your idea accordingly?

FWIW, I asked my husband if he'd ever wear a sky blue tux for a close friend's wedding and he looked at me like I had three heads and said said, "hell no". He would be embarrassed and uncomfortable and I hope that the bride and groom understand and respect that and would allow him to wear a more "normal" color.

Bottom line: Yes, you want people in your party who are supportive, but have some respect for them and don't make them feel embarrassed. No one wants to feel like they had to do something just to make someone happy.

heidirs731 · August 2013

It'd be neat to have the groom in sky blue and the groomsmen in grey with sky blue vests or ties. But if the groomsmen have the groom's sense of humor, then I imagine they'd like wearing sky blue too.

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