me and my fiance got engaged while i was pregnant. i fell in love with a dress by Maggie Sottero. i couldnt get it out of my mind. so i ordered it back in december 2009 because it had to be hand made. now, im not pregnant anymore and i picked it up a few days ago. it has a corsette top. THATS the problem. the dress fits me, THANK GOD, but i only had it on for like 3 minutes and i could hardly breathe because of the corsette!!!! and if i loosen it, it looks so stupid at the back, and my boobs will pop out. any suggestions with these corsettes?