What is the most acceptable gap?
My ceremony to my reception is about 10 minutes on a main road. My ceremony starts at 1:30pm. We MUST be out of the church by 3:30pm for evening mass. My ceremony will be about 30-45 minutes long. My parents have now decided they'd like us to do a receiving line, but it might just be me and my FI. We're inviting 230 guests currently, so a receiving line will eat up a lot of our time. Then of course, the photos. My thing is, I would like to take photos in different locations. First at the church, then outside of the church (which are all fine and dandy) and we can continue to take outside images after 3:30pm. I would also like my FI and I to have our picture taken with our two dogs. To do this, the best option would be to have them taken at my SIL's house which is where everyone will be getting ready anyways. It is about 10 minutes from the reception site.
Our reception place serves dinner an hour after it starts, with us needing to be there thirty minutes after it starts to introduce the WP. I'm trying to figure out what time I should start the reception because it's really not that far away. All of my family is from the area it is in, all of his will be OOT guests. My coordinator recommended a 3:30pm start for reception, but that would mean we'd have to be there and ready by 4pm, which I don't know if it's possible. She also said we could push back until 4pm, but I didn't know if that is too big of a gap?