My fiance and I agreed on not having a bridal party because he has been in 10 weddings as a groomsmen (literally), and I only have about 2 friends I'd include. If you don't have a wedding party, who throws the shower? Is there a polite way to mention we aren't having a bridal party as a hint that no one is necessarily suppose to throw a shower or tea? I have a ton of people all over the bachelorette party, but nothing for the shower and it's making me so nervous. I also have his family that is wanting to help, but want to be told what to do.Everything besides the parties is planned (venue, dress, cake, flowers) Am I being dumb or over-thinking? (Wedding is in June 2014)