I recieved a STD for a wedding last winter. I just recieved the invite, and the wedding is this fall.
Earlier this year, something happened between me and the couple, Bob and Jane. I'm changing identifying details here, FYI. At a party, Bob tried to kiss me. He was drunk and acting weird and asked me to go outside. I did, because I thought people would be out there smoking. When we were alone, I felt really off and so I immediately turned to go inside. In the garage going into the house, he pulled me aside and asked me to kiss him first. I said no, find Jane if you want to kiss someone. I immediately went inside and found Jane and said "Go talk to your f****** fiancé".
A few days later I met up with Jane and told her what happened. She didn't blame me or anything but obviously she was upset. We basically ended the conversation with her saying that she doesn't want her fiancé to see me, but that she would try to be friends, but I reminded her of the issue and it makes her feel bad.
Ever since, things haven't been the same between any of us. She decided to marry him anyways, and that's their decision and I don't really care, not my business. We still see each other and are in the same friend group but it's really awkward. We still try, but I feel bad about what happened, am angry he would put me in that situation. Jane is/was my friend. I feel like half of me just wants to forget my friendship with Jane, and I think she feels the same way.
Anyways, would you go? I feel like I just got a courtesy invite, and can't decide if I should go.