I previously was involved in a local moms club, and had been for several years. Just recently the club itself dissolved but we are all still friends. Shortly before dissolving two new moms had joined and we've started becoming better friends. They know about the wedding (other members are invited) but I've never discussed details or anything like that when they were around as not to be rude. They weren't originally invited to the wedding because we had just met when we had nailed down our guest list and it felt gift grabby to invite them at that point. Plus we weren't sure if money wise it would work. Well, we are in a much better place financially (but NOT due to declines, that has no affect on this) and part of me really wants to invite them since we've gotten closer over the past couple months. But our RSVPs are due today and the other part of me thinks it would look worse inviting them now then keeping the list as is. Would this be b-listing even we did invite them?
After 6 years and 2 boys, finally tying the knot on October 27th, 2013!