I'm not sure how to handle our parents, and what to do for our processional. I have my mom and dad, who are still married, and FI has his dad, his mom passed away about 5 and a half years ago. I also have my birth mother (I am adopted) and her husband (NOT my biological father). I was originally thinking the processional could go like this:
FI and his dad
Bridal party in pairs
Me and my parents.
My questions, however, are 1) would it be weird for FI and his dad to walk down the aisle together? And 2) should I have my birth mother and her husband walk in before FI and his dad, or should they already be sitting down? Would it look too much like we were leaving them out if they were already seated? My birth mother and I are relatively close, I met her when I turned 18, but she's more like a really good friend to me than a mother figure. My MOM is my mother. But I don't want to hurt her feelings.