So I wonder if my Fiance and I should register for our wedding or not? What do you Knottie's think? The last 3 weddings that we went to, the bride and groom did not register and we gave them money. Since we have lived on our own, we do not need anything for the home, and I would much rather receive money, but I don't think you are supposed to ask for money. My friend told me she is not going to register and instead will have a honeymoon fund. I think there are also websites where guests can leave cash contributions. I am pretty new to all this, so I am not to sure what the proper etiquette would be - any help is greatly appreciated