We were going to have a flower girl, my cousins daughter, until we found out our ceremony location does not allow flower petals (even though it is outdoors). Our florist suggested a flower wand (looked them up, they are pretty cute) but my fiance thinks we should just not bother anymore. We are having a small ceremony, only about 40-50 guests at the most. I don't know if we should or not. But I need to figure it out soon, since my cousin lives 4 hours away so he isnt always here, and he will be for Christmas so I can get Mia measured (a friend will be making her dress if we decide to). What would you do?