So I just got an email from a co-bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding. She started this (genuinely awesome) Google Doc that the six of us are contributing to for the bridal shower/bachelorette party. I love it, it's encouraging an exchange of ideas, it's great.
One of the action items is, "Dress code for bridesmaids? Dresses? All white? Ideas??"
Is this a real thing? Do I need to wear something that matches the other girls for the shower/b-party? Or do I have permission to snark all over this and respond, "CLOTHES, ma'am. Clothes."