Ever since I've gotten engaged I've been trying to be mindful of wedding do's and dont's. We're having BBQ buffet for the reception meal but unfortunately the vendor catering is a mom and pop restaurant and only offer buffet catering (aka no option for hordurves). Our budget is very limited and our reception venue requires that we use a licensed caterer for any food that we bring in. Our only option would be to bring in a second caterer and I have yet to find one that is reasonably priced for just hordurves. The wedding starts at 3:30 and the buffet for the reception will be set up no later than 5. Given the time frames would it be ok not to serve hordurves during cocktail hour? There will be an open bar for beverages as well as sodas, water, tea and lemonade. Also being mindful of the kids I'm putting snack goody bags together for them to snack on just in case.