So I have a condition that causes me to faint if I stand still for too long. For this reason, we are planning on a 10 to 15 minute ceremony, 15 being the absolute max. Sometimes I do great when I have to stand for awhile and other times it hits me very quickly, so we are going to have a chair nearby in case I do need to sit (I have some standard warning signs, so it's not an instantaneous fainting event). But I feel like if I'm just in a chair and FI isn't it will look odd during the ceremony and in the photographs. Does anyone have any suggestions that would be prettier and not as alarming if I were to sit all of a sudden? My side is well aware of my condition but most of his side isn't. We've tossed the idea around of kneeling so it looks more natural. I'd really like to try standing versus starting out sitting or kneeling. We've also discussed maybe having a "signal" for our Pastor to speed it up a bit if need be. Have you all seen something like this done in weddings you've been to?
Any feedback is greatly appreciated!!