So my husband and I just recently got legally married in a courthouse for financial reasons, but we plan on having a 'wedding' later on... that was UNTIL my husband's mother revealed her plan to buy us a condo... We are a relatively young couple. I work full time in logistics, and he is a warehousing manager. We are not poor, we get along pretty well with the money we both make. We are absolutely able to afford our own place and everything we need, we have been doing that since we met. The problem is, if we choose to live in this condo (rent free), we need to keep our marriage a secret from his parents until he can finish college, and get a better job. If we do reveal to them that we are married, they will shun him and no longer give him the help he wants so badly. I've been trying to tell him we can do it without them, and that we ARE married now, and we should be focusing on US and what WE want to do (not being held back for however long) , but he doesn't seem to care. He is set on living in this condo and being under his parents' rule, even though he is a grown man.... HELP. What in the world do I do in this situation?!