So you all heard my saga a few months ago about FILs "invoicing" us for family vacation in July. They paid it for us, so I didn't pitch a fit. But now there's more.
Today I got a text from FMIL that said "FSIL was over tonight and she told me about the fun shower she is planning for you guys at the beach! She needs to know your favorite books. We talked about some fun games for the family shower... I think you will love!"
First of all, no I will not love them, because shower games are not my cup of tea. Second of all, this is the first I have heard of any shower from FSIL. She didn't run it by me at all. Third, FI and I haven't even committed to being at this family vacation for the full week... we can't afford to take that many days off. I don't want to hurt FSIL's feelings, but I am really nervous about letting her plan this thing that maybe I won't even be in town for. Agh.