My fiance is not a Catholic, but I am. So I would prefer we get married at a Catholic Church. I was baptized and confirmed at the Catholic Church in the town we are currently living in so technically I am a member. But I'm concerned about 2 big things.
1. I haven't been to church in a very long time.
2. I am not a fan of the church I was baptized/confirmed in and would prefer to have our ceremony at one of the Catholic churches in a neighboring city.
All of this leaves me really confused and not really sure what to do. Should I just start calling various churches and see if they would accept us? Do we need to become members of a church for them to even consider marrying us? Is it going to be hard for us to have a Catholic wedding because my fiance doesn't want to convert?