I'm pretty much hopeless when it comes to accessories so I'm hoping someone can help me out. This (click) is the dress that I ordered for my wedding. I like the look of a sash but I'm not sure if I should go with flowers, something with bling/sparkle, or just a plain ribbon. The hair piece I picked out is here (click). I'm sure I'm way over thinking this but I thought I'd get some opinions. Any opinions on necklace/earrings/bracelets I'm open to as well. I'm goign to try and change the neckline of the dress to a sweetheart if that makes a difference in opinions. I'm also not sure what to do about shoes. Our ceremony is outside but the reception is indoors. I'd love to wear heels but I'm worried about sinking into the grass during our first look pictures (winery so we'll be in fields and vines) and during the ceremony. Should I just stick with flats (I wear flats about 75% of the time so I'm used to it) or can I get away with heels?