I am at a crossroads. My mother is pressuring me to ware her dress but to have it remade completely over. I was for it until we went wedding dress shopping to see different types of dress on my body. Now, I am not sure what to do and I have to make a decision on Jan 4th. This is so the dress maker can get started and finished within 18 months. My biggest worry is being a cookie cutter bride but also being a dress too aged for me. One of my bridesmaids and my Maid of Honor are not sold on my mother's dress and their idea of what I can do, offends my mother. What do I do? Please, I need help! I don't want to break my mother's heart.