At weddings hubby and I always give cash but this last wedding for some reason he grabbed a check. I explained how I hate doing that because it can take awhile for the B&G to cash it. But since this particular B&G were only going on a 2-day honeymoon I figured it wouldn't be too long. Well its been over 2 weeks and it hasn't been cashed, to me that seems like a long time since they have been back from their honeymoon already for 2 weeks. Can I say/ask anything? Or just patiently wait? I can't imagine I am the only one that is waiting for this?