April Wedding and already exhausted! (Vent)

Re: April Wedding and already exhausted! (Vent)

• hlvonb

  

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  February 2014

  @benfield72

  
  

  I felt like that but I took a step back from planning. I told myself that it doesn't matter what my size or weight is because my fiance loves me for me. Your fiance / future husband loves you for who you are and that includes what you weigh. 

  
  

  As for the planning, put it aside for 2 or 3 days or so. Take a break and don't talk about the wedding in any excessive detail. Then come back to it after a couple days. It will be easier. 
  
  

  If there's anyway I can help, feel free to message me.

  

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• hutchsl

  

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  February 2014

  I knew a girl at work planning a wedding around te same time I was planning mine. She got so stressed at the wedding posts about being behind she eloped. Don't let what others aredoing stress you out. So sit back and think what is really important you. Maybe evite invitiations to get rid of that stress, ... As fars as weight, don't stress He is marring you as you are. Use friends and family around you for advise on who to use for thigs lie altering, cakes, etc if those items are still needed/wanted.

  

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• hutchsl

  

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  February 2014

  One more thing. I was never on the knot/wedding channel schedule. I made my own that I thought was more realistic. I only had 6 months to plan a wedding and we did everything ourselves (even wrote the ceremony from googled items) except catering. We have family with a restaurant for that.

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• Fairyjen1

  

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  February 2014

    I did feel the same way, That's why we went from 120 guest list to under 20 (immediate family only). we also wanted to get married at Disneyland and their packages include everything but photography. I can hire a photographer and then show up in a dress! Once we decided to go that route getting married became much more fun!

  

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• benfield72

  

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  March 2014

  We are now under the 30 day mark and I just had to give up control and just hoping for the best... Thank God for Spring Break... I have a week for the final touches...

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• claudialrodas

  

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  May 2014

  Firstly try to have fun it’s your wedding I know how hectic these wedding’s are but try to take out some time ,the day and nights are much bigger try doing your weight loosing regime at night or early morning that’s how most of the people schedule their daily regime of workout.

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