I got off Fbook for over a year...rejoined due to a few friends being absolutely horrible about responding to phone calls/emails/texts, yet they live and die by facebook (I don't get it either).
Anyways, reconnected with a girl I've known since middle school. While in law school (she was a year behind me at the school I went to), she met a guy. Shortly before I got off Fbook (around summer 2012), she married him. Post was that they'd eloped, but would have a party later (ie, after she graduated and took the bar) to celebrate with everyone. Fine, that's allowed.
Until I found her today. Imagine my shock at seeing her picture in a wedding dress! Looked over the photos- yep, last October she had a full on wedding ceremony, complete with unity candle (I wonder how her family handled that, considering she's Jewish and I understand that's traditionally a Catholic thing? Or do Jewish/interfaith ceremonies allow the unity candle? FTR- there was no chuppah, no indication the officiant was a rabbi, nothing. Her grandma was probably flipping out, if my memory of that woman serves correctly), a bridal party, pre ceremony 'hidden from view" photos, and a full reception with cake cutting. The photos around the venue matched with professional "engagement" photos that appear elsewhere on her profile (in the album "engagement shoot" which are dated in spring 2013).
I have no idea if any of her family was aware of her previously getting married or what, but I know she was married at least 16 months before her "wedding." I'm not gonna say anything to her (just reconnected) but privately I'm side eyeing the shit out of this.