H & I gave a couple a check on May 3rd and it still hasn't been cashed. I made the check out just to the groom since I didn't know if the bride was taking his name and we had issues cashing a couple due to the fact my name wasn't changed legally yet. This couple is a little lazy and I don't want to be rude, but I can't stand being off in my checkbook. H talks to him regularly, so can I have him mention it or should I wait a couple more weeks?