So my MOH is supposed to be my best friend. She didn't know much about the wedding; was the last one to get her dress and just not a friend anymore. We got into a fight over the weekend and it came down to she is always lying! About her relationship, where she was and just stupid things and I told her I couldn't take it anymore. I didn't know who she was anymore. She turned to me and said so you don't want me to be in the wedding and I said no and I don't want you in my life. This is the second blow up we had and I'm done! And when she went to get her dress she told the shop owner that she had the money in the car she just didn't feel like walking out there to get it!! I think that was extremely rude and inappropriate.
She then texted me saying that she would like a reimbursement on her dress; well I'm not the shop owner. Now I have to get someone to fill her spot and hopefully be able to get a dress for the other girl. She shop owner told me that the dress isn't refundable and that we can maybe alter the dress to fit the other girl. But I don't think it's right to make this other girl pay for alteration. The shop owner is my friend but I feel like I should take the in the wedding in the first place she would have got a dress that fit her. Should I give my ex-friend her money back and have the new person pay me or should I take cost out of the return to my old MOH for the alteration cost to the new girl. What should I do?!