My fiancé and I will both be recent college graduates by the time our planned wedding date comes around, so we don't exactly have a lot of money to do the wedding on our own. My parents initially said that they would be paying for the wedding, but as time goes on my family dynamics get worse and worse. I don't particularly get along with my parents or my sister (who is my MOH) and I feel like they're holding the wedding money over my head. When I try to voice my opinions on how I want things to go for my wedding it's always "If this is how you're going to treat me/us then I don't know if I want to pay for a wedding". Right now, it's about the shower. My sister (the MOH) is hosting and we aren't getting along and she keeps throwing up the "Why should I be doing anything nice for you?" and it's really frustrating. My fiancé and I have talked and if it's going to be this way, do I really want to do a wedding or a shower? He said as long as I have my dress (which was purchased a few months ago) and a pastor, that's all he really needs. Why should we put ourselves through 7 more months of this misery for what is supposed to be the happiest day or our lives? Would it be better to just call it all off right now and say "screw it" and elope? I don't want to make an emotional decision, but this seems to be happening at least 3 or 4 times a week. We've already booked the venue and gathered a wedding party and the bridesmaids have already bought their dresses. I would feel bad for them purchasing the dress if we decide not to have the wedding, but should I just go through with it because they already put down the money for their dresses? And then what about my fiancé's parents? They haven't been like my family and I would feel bad for not having a wedding since they're really looking forward to their son's big day...