So, my FI was cornered a little bit ago, and passively said that he will find out about the invitation by a girl that we know through a friend...
A little back story, this girl was here, we would see her through people and she works at the same place FI does. She is Romanian and her work / tourist visa expired so she went back to Romania. We arent even close enough to her that we said goodbye. We dont know her last name, or have her cell phone number.
So, now as the wedding comes closer people who are invited are talking about it, and she keeps making comments about where her invitation is. One of her co-workers apparently said "maybe she doesnt have your address" which she then said (Im not sure if it was to my FI or not) that he should bring it to work.
Ummmm..... at this point even if my FI was a dumb dumb (because I had gone over the "we are keeping the wedding an intimate event with close friends and family" script, and bean dip) and may have unintentionally made it seem like this girl is invited, I really am just so against giving her an invite.
Im not even sure what the etiquette is about this, but I feel like shes almost demanding an invite at this point. We are not friends, we casually talk when were at a mutual friends BBQ and thats it. I dont know your last name, I dont know your cell phone number, nothing. Just STOP.
We have been dealing with so many entitled to an invite people that FI has said some questionable things to people. ...and I just try to be as curtious as possible and bean dip.
I think this was a partial vent.