Do you ever feel like planning your wedding just isn't meant to be? We started to get all set on everything, we were having a backyard BOP wedding at my FIL's, and now that is all down the drain. My FFIL is not doing so well medically and the decision was made that it will be just too much to do it at our FIL's. I feel like we're running out of time and I have no idea what to do.