My FMIL has been subtly rude or different towards me since my FI and I moved an hour away (we used to live closer). Sometimes she is so nice and awesome and then sometimes I leave with a question in my head about if she was intending to be rude or if I was taking things to personally. I will spear you of all the details but I want to know if I am out of line being upset about this one...
My parents are throwing us a small engagement party, mainly so they can meet my FI family. (We have set up two meetings in the past where his mother bailed at the last minute). We kind of figured if we call it an engagement party she can't really bail. My FI tells me today that he had a long discussion with his mother about it and he is going to arrive with his family to the party and I will arrive before him with our dog (legit what he said). I was planning on arriving with my FI (and our dog) seeing how it is an engagement party for us and I wanted to arrive as a couple. I told him this immediately and his response was his mother is uncomfortable and he wants to do everything to make his mother is comfortable in an uncomfortable situation. I plan to discuss this further this afternoon... unless I am the one out of line?