We're not really having a destination wedding...Our venue is equidistant from his home town and from mine. Our guests are family members, friends, and family friends.
I'm sure my aunts, uncles, and cousins will come. His might. We're also inviting some of my parents' closest friends who I've known most of my life...do you think they would make the 6 hour drive? It's also in a state park in the mountains (with a ton of activities, so I'm hoping people will stick around to explore it).
TBH, I want the wedding to be as small as possible. I can't not invite some of these people, I would feel bad if I didn't. But if they can't come, I think I'll be just fine.